Relishing the Reality through Words.✨
We are so much obsessed with ourselves that we use to ignore our flaws and our mistakes. As a result, we solely blame our destiny for all our loses and our failures.
Do you think destiny is always blameable for your loses and failures ?
I tried to express my views over it. Read it here👇
https://kashishguptablogs.blogspot.com/2020/10/is-destiny-always-blamable-lets-break.html
Somewhere among the stars,
Picturing my fortune.
No matter how iniquitous I’m ,
Always blessing me with a boon.
I know I’m full of flaws,
And my sins are part of it.
Please lead me towards prosperity,
Don’t let me fall into pit.
This pit of Ignorance is more than a curse.
So Bless me with a mind,
A mind residing in a peaceful perch!
PS – Oh Lord! Bless me with a peaceful mind. Help me to chose the right always. I’m a human and like all humans I also commit mistakes. Please, bless me with the courage to accept my mistakes and lead me towards prosperity.
Tears down like the rain,
Seen but not felt.
Happiness like the flame,
Felt but not lasts.
Pain like the companion,
Lasts but not empathize.
“Change is constant” goes a quite famous saying. Some believes in the process of change and love to adapt to it but a number of others don’t like to change themselves and use to live in the same way as already living. Now, what’s the thing? What this change really is? What’s the reason to undergo the change?
Let’s discuss a little about the change, expanding the term.
For continuous development and to remain in the continuous state of learning, we need to adapt ourself with the continuously changing time and obviously with the continuously changing world as well. Those who dont change themselves with time, usually suffer. Same concept exixts with the law of natural selection as well. What are mutations and why mutations take place? What is adaptation? What is the theory of natural selection? Well, I’m not going to explain all these scientific terms this time. You can google yourself for the same but I’m gonna explain that all these scientific concepts, one way or the other are completely associated with the change. In short, the one who changes himself, has the chances of survival and existence while those who don’t adapt the change either suffer or vanish away.
The same thing i.e the concept of change can be applied in our daily life as well. While making a 360 degree view around and examining the undergoing processes around us, we will find that the one who changes himself, bring something new, develop something new and have more chances to prosper in life. Lets make it a little simple. Suppose one businessman named A uses the old methods and the primitive ways to expand his business. He use to work a lot, investing his time as well as wealth in expanding the business but he hadn’t used the technological features. He believes that the old methods and the old ways that were previously used by his ancestors are the best. So, he neglect the change and work using the old primitive techniques. Now, on the other hand, suppose a businessman B is smart enough to adapt to the changing world and knows the concept of change. By using this concept, B makes use of new technologies and modern ways to expand his business. So Who you think have more chances to create the monopoly in the market. Well, everyone knows the answer to this question. Its B. Now what you think this example have any singnificance in our life?
Well, Yes, We need to update and modernize ourself as well. If we want to achieve our dreams and prosper well in life, we’re strongly needed to introduce ourself to the change. In this world, only few people understands the value of change and those who attain the knowledge and the values of this change surely succeed. So, the very important lesson we can learn here is the Change.
Whenever life hits, the only thing that comes to my mind to make an effective comeback is the Music. Music hits so hard that you don’t need drug or weed to hit upon. I’m literally very much connected with music that whenever I need a break, I feel like listening to it .
Everytime I felt emotionally broken, music helped me rising. Music has a special role to play in my life. Poetry may be my escape from reality but music is just like living in delusion without escaping the reality.
Whenever one is on the journey of achievements and attainment of success, numerous factors start rising to distract and leading the same away from that path of success. One of the factor is criticism by the others.
Critics are everywhere and had a very important role to play in our life. We can take criticism in a positive as well as in a negative way. It’s completely on us, whether we chose to take that criticism as a building block for constructing our castle or a hammer to destroy the castle.
Read out the complete blog post👇
https://kashishguptablogs.blogspot.com/2020/09/criticism-and-achievements.html
Happiness of others matter, but going out of the way in order to please someone doesn’t make sense at all. Try to work for self first and then for others.
Read the complete portion👇
https://kashishguptablogs.blogspot.com/2020/10/others-vs-self-break-rule.html
The concept of male dominance and patriarchy always existed that kind of shows our lack of moral education and ultimately deteriorates our progress.
Read out the complete blog ;
https://kashishguptablogs.blogspot.com/2020/10/male-dominance.html
Sometimes the conditions are not in our favour. We are just like the actors performing in the picture directed by our own destiny and produced by our actions and our mistakes.
Now, the situation acts as the testing factor that testing our patience, acting at our psychological state and our reactions to the whole condition, ofcourse.
Try to do your best in any possible way. Try to act in an optimistic way to tackle the whole situation in the most effective way and more importantly, don’t quit.
Well, Mr Perfect, Don’t you think it’s a very common tittle we use to entitle someone we find a little impressive, someone having any additional quality or anyone with a more better experience. But, does this title have any real significance?
Have God created anyone perfect?
Are we all perfect?
Questions are numerous but the answer needs a little understanding and the perception, a little thinking approach and the way we view this terminology of perfection. Let’s jump into it to find a little more!
THE FLAW OF PERFECTION!
”You’re perfect”, ”You are the best of your kind”. These are the quotes, we are listening to since our childhood. Our parents, friends use to teach us this because they never wanted to down our morale, make us sad, instead they always wanted to boost our self esteem and increase our confidence level. Maybe this can somehow increase our morale and also help in building a level of high self esteem but along with this, we also can’t deny the fact of our existence as humans. We are not any god’s Avatar or some kind of superpower, who is not allowed to be imperfect.
We all do mistakes and mistakes forms the initiation of results. Humans are allowed to make mistakes and then learn from them but don’t you think considering oneself as a fine example of perfection and then completely ignoring the concept of mistakes is a shit?
Noone is perfect here. This line widely explains everything. Noone is either born perfect and noone is even very close to perfection. So entitling someone with Mr. Or Miss Perfect is bullshit.
Everyday the people rise. The one who’s the master of any subject today may become the retard of same subject the another day, so, where’s the perfection? Everything in nature have replacements. The better with the qualities exist. Is this perfection? The one who is so called perfect today, maybe he’d be the product of failures tomorrow. So what was the perfection then?
The only concept that exist is Perfection is nothing but a false notion, a stupid shit that created a hype and nothing else. We had termed someone as perfect just by looking a phase and completely ignoring the whole body. Everyone is born with flaws, deficiencies etc but we need to remove them, raise our self esteem, and this is called Improvement, progress and not Perfection.
According to me, the word perfect has a flaw in itself. We don’t realise but when we call someone perfect we are in true sense downgrading our own level of self esteem. If we are impressed by someone in any form whether work, passion etc, we need to admire them, we need to work on ourself to improve, we need to take steps to lead ourselves on that path but considering the person perfect and then blindly following him is just the underdeveloped behaviour of our small immature mind. So stop considering people as perfect. Remember we’re humans and humans are full of flaws and it’s a natural Human tendency to commit mistakes. So, the concept of Perfection or being perfect is not more than a shit.
Work on improvements and Believe in Progress instead of working to attain a fake perfection!
Exploring Life! 